The Diplomat Grand Rapids Formerly: Diplomat Health Club

79% love it
A bath, sauna and gym
A place for gay men to meet.
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    • Purebottom
      Purebottom Over a year ago
      Loves it

      The first time I ever went there was mine blowing the guy that worked there even let me stay over after his shift was done for someone on one time and have been regular from that day I have always left there feeling filled

    • zarzuelazb
      zarzuelazb Over a year ago
      Loves it

      Drama, drama, drama!
      No, in fact this place does get frequented by the locals and in fact they are doing very well right now, you just have to know when to come. Not at 3 am on a tuesday in January. Try mid-day, or weekends friday saturday afternoon or night. They sell out everything and its packed, all different types of guys... also very clean and friendly staff. You can't find a better place within hours of driving. Anyone who says differently is just mad they didn't get what they wanted.

    • playwme1986
      playwme1986 Over a year ago
      Hates it

      Ask a local.
      As a frequent traveler and man about town I have seen bathhouses in many cities. Now as a resident of GR I'm appalled that this one is allowed to remain open. While the staff was friendly and accommodating there was nobody there. I dropped $30 and three hours of my time only to be disappointed with no action. That tells me something that the locals must have already learned regarding this establishment. Now, let me say this isn't my first time here it's my third in as many months. I have been attempting to give the place a chance. Even on a Saturday when I was here the play was lack luster at best. At that time there were four guys including myself and I was the only one under thirty. The others appeared to be much older than I, not that it's a bad thing just wasn't my thing. So sufice it to say, of all the BH in all the cities I have frequented, the staff here is great, it's clean for the most part, but business is slow and the locals are the ones who know why.

    • Grbottom
      Grbottom Over a year ago
      Loves it

      Really wanna check this place out. Email me if you still go really wanna bottom for a clean big thick cock.

    • Mwm1971
      Mwm1971 Over a year ago
      Loves it

      Grand Rapids Diplomat
      This place is really a great place at times. Especially if you like to be watched. Very open floor plan, but has private rooms as well. I have met some really hot guys here. All different shapes and sizes. Pretty laid back and friendly atmosphere. Glory Holes, sling, group room, sauna. Pretty clean place. Staff is friendly.

    • cm1970
      cm1970 Over a year ago
      Loves it

      Great experiences
      I just visited the grand rapids club for the first time in years this weekend and had a really great time, the place was packed, good mix of young guys and older, and it was actually CLEAN! and the new owners are bringing more entertainment soon. I hope they start doing this in the toledo diplomat so I won't have to drive so far!

    • Younglove
      Younglove Over a year ago
      Loves it

      Clean hot fun
      I'm 22 and I just went to the diplomat for the first time today and feel great! There are plenty of rooms for private play, a sauna, showers and group areas to have fun. The porn on tv got me hard right away; thankfully there were two other hot guys to play with around when I went. Also, every room smells as of it were just washed which makes me want to come back during a busier time. Five stars all the way!

    • youngguy
      youngguy Over a year ago
      Hates it

      behind close doors
      the diplomat did have some very cute guys working for them and yes it is very clean at the front where the employes sit and check them in and very pelsent to look at and if you get them to answer the door if ur lucky they might anwser the door and let you in once throgh the doors there is some equipment in the front but once you walk past the vending machice the some one the rooms are drity with human feces all over the place and if you use the rest room you run in the same then and no totile paper in any of the bath rooms there is black mold growing in the shower and if you want to use the sauna sometimes you have to wait for the employe to turn it on but why you wait you can count the used condoms in the showers. when they arrive to turn the sauna on when you open up the sauna door you will change ur mind i wont even go there because it is that bad which brings us to the up stairs there is a couple couches an unantened alsome sex swing and i dont recamend using it because the things that may linger there which will bring us to the beds the soild sheets also used condoms with human feces there is a family of rodents that roam the flitities these are the draw backs. Now for the positve things you get to see live porn and any of the four tvs there one the tv in the lobbie you will find porn also but thats not the good part of the club the best part is the live porn going on the couches. i would not recommend unless you want a quick lay then i would high tell it out of there as fast as you got in its that bad. but it is up to you this is one gays oppion. it is also a waist of my $17 dollers for nothing.

    • craigm82
      craigm82 Over a year ago
      Loves it

      This place is getting better since the new management took over it has always been clean when I go and new guys are evidently checking the place out. Nice to see a new sauna and paint, furniture, better video, etc. Its worth checking out if you want to meet some nice guys.

    • wanderingboy86
      wanderingboy86 Over a year ago
      Loves it

      Its gotten better
      This place has been here for 30 years, and its in a large old building. New management is updating, and keeping it very clean... Its always busy around noon, even weekdays, most guys are 30-50 with exceptions. New staff and management have made a huge difference and it shows. I always leave with a smile, most importantly!

    • ianoban
      ianoban Over a year ago
      Hates it

      Very dirty and run down. No hot tub or bath as advertised. Do NOT let the picture on their website mislead you